“American girls are weather and noise
Playing the changes for all of the boys
Holding a candle right up to my hands
Making me feel so incredible…”
-Counting Crows
Somedays, I feel like such a girl. Lately, I’ve been feeling very girly and very moody and blah blah blah, and then somehow this morning the sun is out and I managed to get things done (even though I hated every minute of it) and didn’t realize until I got home that I went out in a pony tail, sweatshirt, and no makeup and to be honest wasn’t the least bit mortified. Didn’t care in the slightest. I had priorities, y’know. (Damn well better believe I didn’t forget my gloves. Or a warm vest).
I guess sometimes I wish I was the kind of person who wanted to be “on” all the time, but frankly, I’m just not. And it’s too bad, because I love the feeling I have when I’m all done up – the hair is done, I’ve got a little makeup on I love how I feel a tiny bit more together, and sometimes I feel pretty. And who doesn’t love pretty? By the way, my nickname for this eyeshadow I’m wearing in this picture is “stripper dust” because it’s glittery. By the end of the night, I tend to have glitter in places I didn’t start with, because it just kind of sparkles all over. It’s a pain in the ass, but a little bit fun. It’s weird, because I do feel so good when I’m all glittered up, but just can’t seem to be bothered to do it most of the time. And to be honest, I don’t totally mind that about myself. I would have a hard time being one of those women who spends more time getting ready to run an errand than she actually spends running the errand.
But even as I type, with a kid napping and plans for the evening and knowing how much better I feel when I’m a little more put together, I have yet to get off my ass and get done up. How long do you all spend getting yourselves together for the day (Yes, men too!). I’m trying to figure out just where I fall on the whole spectrum.

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November 21, 2008 at 6:49 pm
"Brad"
Glitter is great for women. For us guys, not so good, unless we listen to Frankie Goes to Hollywood more than twice a week. I’m probably not your typical guy, trust me, hair dye( for accent not cover up), tweezers, trimming the stubble to an exact length, and then combing my eyelashes too. A long process that I rarely admit too. And I can’t forget the apricot scrub either. I swear I’m not gay.
Actually, I’d yet to admit to the eyelash tending till just now. But it takes a while when the intent is there.
November 21, 2008 at 6:57 pm
EnrapturedMind
Sounds like I’d hit it. lol.
November 24, 2008 at 10:32 pm
Contessa Confessa
I swear I’d live in my running gear/Niki’s and/or my pj’s if I could get away with it…
however, i do have a fulltime job, so I do apply makeup and dress-up for work. I generally wear a blouse, dress pants, high heels (boots lately since it’s been cold). It takes me about 30 minutes to get ready in the morning.
For a night on the town, I usually go all out– dark jeans, heels, flirty top, trench coat (since it’s cold). It takes me about 45 minutes to get ready for date night, or a night out with the girls.
I don’t use much make-up– but i will apply lipgloss, eyeliner, mascara.
My hair’s a f*ckin’ mess of curls– I let it go natural most days. To “tame it” just seems to work against me…